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Madonna M. Shaffer ('nee McElmeel)
obituary
(Dubuque, Iowa paper)
(January 2, 1932-March 5, 1999)
Daughter of:
Lonald Vincent McElmeel
and Leona Colette Jasper
Burial
Mount Olivet Cemetery
Key West, Iowa
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Donna Mae Shaffer, 67, of 2015 Lombard
Street (Dubuque, Iowa), died at 12:20 a.m. Friday, March 5, 1999, at
Froedtert Memoria1 Lutheran Hospital, Milwaukee.
Services will be at 10 a.m. Monday at St. Joseph the Worker Catholic
Church, with burial in Mount Olivet Cemetery, Key West, Iowa. Friends
may call from 2 to 7 p.m. today at Egeihof, Siegert & Casper
Westview Funeral Home, 2659 Kennedy Road, where there will be a wake
service at 6 p.m.
Mrs. Shaffer was a teacher in Dyersville, Iowa, and in rural one-room schools in Delaware and Dubuque counties.
She was born on Jan. 2, 1932, daughter of Lonald and Leona (Jasper)
McElmeel, on the family homestead farm, south of Earlville, Iowa.
She married James L. Shaffer on May 28, 1955. Together they forged a
family that grew to in-clude four children, their spouses, and five
grandchildren, all of whom survive. She taught them to love each other,
to work hard and play fair, to be kind to others, to believe in
themselves, and to have fun. She lived those words, caring for her
mother-in-law and father-in-law, Regina H. and Harold L. Shaffer, her
sister-in-law, Helen Appel, and her hus-band’s aunt, Irene Sutton, who
preceded her in death. Her best example for some 44 years was her love
for her husband.
She grew up in Dyersville, amid much mischief and love, and graduated
from St. Francis Xavier High School in 1949. She at-tended Briar Cliff
College, Sioux City, Iowa, and the University of Dubuque. She enjoyed
life, whether it meant working in her beautiful garden, playing golf
with friends, singing in church choir, or working shoulder-to-shoulder
with her husband in their photography business. She brought grace,
humor and joy to those around her, and her family and friends are
richer for her life and poorer for her passing. The world has lost a
beautiful soul.
Surviving are her husband, James; her son, David J. (Angela L .Knight)
Shaffer; and their Sons, Alexander D. and Eric A. Shaffer; her
daughter, Ann E. Shaffer (Dean P. Robbins); and their son, Joseph J.
Shaffer; her daughter, Amy M. (Jerry) Grahs; and their children, Megan
K. and William L. Grahs, and a baby due in October; her daughter, Mary
Pat Shaffer (Robert Leff); and their baby due in July; her brother,
Lynell McElmeel, of Waukesha, Wis.; three sisters, Bernadine Thielen,
of Dyersville, Kathleen (Dave) Luensmann, of Boulder, Co., and Patricia
(Bill) Dougherty, of Dubuque; and many nieces and nephews. She was
preceded in death by her parents. Memorials may be given to the
Wednesday Night Meal for the Needy at St. Patrick's Parish, Dubuque,
which she supported.
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